Posted by sore and sorry on July 28, 2003 at 22:20:21
In Reply to: How's your sex life? posted by Researcher on July 20, 2003 at 02:04:00:
(1) Are you and FG or born into TF?
fg
(2) How long have you been out?
21 years
(3) How has your attitude toward sex changed since leaving (if at all)?
I had to learn to enjoy sex as it was the most horrible thing in the world to me.
(4) Did you consider your sex life healthy and normal while you were in TF? yes
(5) How do you view your sex life in TF now that you have left? sick, exploitive, controlling, unpleasant
(6) What difficulties (if any) did you experience with what TF taught or enforced regarding sex?
Apart from sexual diseases contracted in the Family and cervical cancer from too many partners I just did not want to have sex for about fifteen years. Seven years ago I met someone who has helped me to enjoy sex again and I am thankful for that.
(7) What difficulties (if any) have you experienced since leaving as a result of what TF taught or enforced regarding sex.
as above
(8) Was sex ever part of the motivation (be honest!) for your joining or staying in TF?
No way. It was eventually the thing that made me leave.
(9) Did you have any concerns that you would not be able to enjoy the sexual freedoms you had in TF if you left?
I am more sexually free now than I ever was in the Family