In Reply to: Re: More on the he said, she said issue posted by MG on March 06, 2003 at 01:29:12:
I dare say we have all done things in that group that we are now ashamed of. The fact that you are willing to admit it now and make amends speaks volumes. I see no abuse needing to come your way. We've already suffered and still suffer because of the bed we made, and now we have to sleep in it.
If you want to find your offspring, I'd say go for it. Just be careful and realize they may not want to be found, but if they do, you will all be the better for it. I know, because I have a son who always asks about his father - he heard from him maybe twice, and then never again. We've heard rumors that he's on his own somewhere in the States driving a truck, but no one in TF will help us locate him. I see it hurt my son. TF acts like kids should not care who their biological father is and I hate that. That's like telling children to be non-responsive, all they are doing is raising a bunch of robots with pasted on smiles and automatic hug reactions.