In Reply to: Re: Definitions posted by Jewlz on July 13, 2005 at 02:54:55:
I'm not trying to be stupid here, but it's all a matter of opinion. For some who leave they just want to be able to get their heads together and find the path they are needing to go in to get on with their lives. Everyone already knows we are all very different people as individuals. In my many years I saw lots of people leave. Just because they do, doesn't really mean they are leaving with the intent to bring the TFI down, and joining the cause as you mentioned above. Most who do leave don't join the cause. If so this site would be filled with thousand of posters, instead of about 20 something people who post regularly.
As you've not been in the TFI for a long time this point may not have been clear to you. As for Barry/Windy I have no idea. One thing is for sure, everyone now does have their own choices to make and no one gets pressured to stay if they don't want to. (I know it may be hard to believe, but it's true)
Just my 2 cents worth.