In Reply to: Re: kid yourself if you will posted by reader on February 25, 2009 at 07:23:17:
believe...you wanted to defend Becky...that's the way I "read" you...& frankly you had my sympathy.I disagree with OT2 that threads can happen to be just only between two people...may be at times, as no one else can judge some personal matter...but all the while it happens to be a "public" board, so I don't get the notion about interfering eventually at times (as "here" on your part)...on the other hand, I am happy OT2 is back and I figure some of his reactions (mood) are due to things he went through, which of course cannot be the free-pass for everything...after all it's just something Becky had primarily to handle...I would say though, that my reaction would/could have been different ; )
But please, is there a reason, why you prefer to be a reader (only)?Don't you think, you have very valuable ideas to contribute?I have seen you every now & then & actually would like to know more about you...can reader be reader cum writer???
What happens to me sometimes is, that I write/reply before fully reading/grasping/absorbing a text...which is bad...so reading skills (patience...hearing people out) is super important...I just thought, may be you like to "advance" to the state of writing about your reflections after reading & life in general???