I'd say on the whole the men in the Family have got it pretty damn good. They lord over everyone with the token female leader thrown in to keep the girls happy.
That is the only thing that I still get angry about and really when you get down to tin tacks that was the thing that caused all my pain in the Family. Bloody men lording it over everybody, fucking whoever they liked, taking new young wives willy-nilly moving children around, splitting up Families. The Family is a macho heaven - always has been, always will be. That's why.