Let me define that

Posted by Observer on January 03, 2004 at 15:55:46

In Reply to: Re: Reclaiming individuality is a process posted by susie on January 03, 2004 at 15:34:11:

I mean that if we are to respect each other's headspaces & beliefs, then courtesy is a natural part of that. By courtesy I mean listening & respecting even if we don't agree. You'll notice I did say I was against the kind of artificial smiles & forced 'niceness' of the Family.

I agree we have to be natural, but though I can't quote them, what I'm thinking of are the rules on this board against personal attacks, putting people down, etc. Just the commonsense stuff.