When I first left TF and my whole spiritual foundation was in ruins, I was desperately hanging on to what I could muster up as fact or what made sense, since nothing that made sense anymore.
In the end, I came to the conclusion that if there truly is a God, then he would be God enough to have all these bases covered - the things that were so confusing and unresolved and led me down a path picking daisies. My favorite verse then and now is "Man looks on the outward appearance, but God looks on the heart." I believe that God sees beyond a person's belief or dogmas or outward showings. I really believe there are people who do not profess Christianity that are more Christian in actions than many who trot to church Sunday after Sunday with their well read bibles under their arms. God has to be able to see that or he is not enough of a God for me to fall down and worship. It solved a lot of the perplexing confusion that leaving TF left me with. Not that it's all gone, but I do believe it carried me through because IT MADE SENSE! I cannot stand it when things do not make sense. I cannot ever go down the path of just believing because "the bible told me so" or that's just what it says or what God wants. Am I making any sense now? I know that Christians have a hard time with this idea, but it helped me a lot.