Ceasefire requested!
Wondering, you appear to be stalking Alan, which is against the rules and guidelines. It might appear that way because you might be posting under different handles, and only appear under this/these to confront Alan. If you have indeed shared more than your angry side, it would help to state so for the record, and point Alan to your journey sharing side. Alan has a point.
Alan, if you could edit and delete the anger in these posts, literally ignore the offensive parts, I think you have to give this person credit for getting clearer and more articulate about what it is that bothers him/her. I've noticed a change, a progression, which perhaps may not be easy to see because of the anger packaging, but this person has taken the effort to explain better what it is that offends him/her/others. There were a lot of good and valid points in those posts, and it would do good for you to pay attention to the sensitivities here, which in my opinion were well expressed (minus the outburst), and to which you are clearly not giving enough attention.