In Reply to: Re: I'm not sure I get you posted by Erika on April 23, 2004 at 01:06:28:
Have you ever experienced someone whose very problem is perfectionism? Or someone with a condition which will really be made worse by you asking them to be (or strive to be) perfect?
I do. I know many people where this is the kind of thing you don't say to them because of the triggers you'll trip on.
Please let's not forget what I am saying. All I am saying is I have no problem with the deeper pricipals. I have a problem with the language and what seems to me to be a primitive style of communication/negotiating with human egos. I have a problem with the patriarchal language, and so on.