In Reply to: Re: S.D. posted by Kinda Gentler on November 19, 2004 at 18:13:46:
You sound really angry and have just threatened to stop posting here. You say that as if this were a cosmetic counter. Posters come and go here according to their needs. You obviously came here because you needed to unload your perspective on me. You perceived me to be "THE professional opinion with a differing view". My perspective apparently hurt you. Perhaps if you simply allow me to have a different perspective from yours and you share your perspective without downgrading mine then we could have a productive conversation. From what you've written it appears to me that you now feel that you don't "fit in". I see that that is very important to you. Perhaps if you slow down enough to reflect on why you are reacting so intensely to my posts then maybe you will uncover something you didn't know about yourself? You preach on being nonjudgmental yet you have judged me several times over without even knowing me personally. For the record, I am not a mental health professional nor am I an academician. This is just the way I express myself, which is a product of my entire phenomenology thus far. And if I sound like a professional it’s because I can validate my perspective with my life experiences. Happy trails ;-)