In Reply to: Re: Welcome posted by excog on January 20, 2005 at 20:01:44:
Thanks for the warm welcome guys! I've been wondering; is it a good thing to meddle with the past? When I read the article about Ricky, all these emotions started hitting me and memories of my COG days came back. I must admit, I have a lot of good memories, but the thing that really damaged me was that my husband took a second wife. It affected me deeply, BUT, I think if a person allows the past to hinder their future, thats not good. thats why I've tried to forget the hurt. It's been 17years-what is your take on this? Is it better to just say 'lesson learned' and move on, or is it good to have this support system?