In Reply to: looking for a sister posted by Ish Selah on September 15, 2006 at 21:39:55:
I would like to help, but 1) I am a super systemite, 2)I am a man 3) I am married to a super sytemite. I would give you some advice though remeber part of the prayer of St. Francis, (that was not actually written by Saint Francis)"Seek to understand and not be be understood." If you are looking for someone who is like a "sister" from TF they are not to be found outside TF. Anyone who leaves TF actually qualifies for "systemite" status. My advice to you is not to measure others by the families measuring tape. To use that as your source of measuring people anyone you meet will not measure up to that standard or in my opinion measure down. Another bit of advice if you you still think of yourself as Ish Selah, try to find your true identity in Christ, we all have one and it has nothing to do with TF. For myself my identity with TF is that, it is a cult I was involved in a great part of my life, but now it is a point of experience I can share with others on how not to follow Christ. Be open with others, be transparent, try to bless others with your experience, look at the world with the eyes of Christ, and not with the distorted glasses of TF.