Posted by on November 17, 2010 at 21:27:13
In Reply to: Re: Vivaah .....For those of us who believe in real love posted by Farmer on November 10, 2010 at 12:04:23:
Please i need some advice,i dont know whether you remember me, but i took in my ex's neice in january, and since then things have been very awkward. i'm at the point of giving her two weeks notice to leave, i set up a counsellor for her, and the opportunity to go into shared housing until she could get on her feet, i want to help but she doesnt want to take anything but money and peoples time and energy, but none of this has worked and her being here isn't working out, it's like a dark presence everytime she's here, and she's so moody, and blaming everyone else for her troubles, i have to do something but am worried about it just being another'move/home' for her where no one loves her. how can i help, i've looked at moving on and they've shut down, and ICI but it's not that informative either, and she's adamant nothing happened to her and her life was great, just that she was selfish, i have no one here who understands what it's like, and i don't want to lose her please some advice and prayers. she will do what i ask saying the typical yes ma'me but lying through her teeth at every turn, and thinking i have no idea what's going on how do i help her, with her out of my home and being able to love her from a distance? sorry to burden you but we're exhausted xxx