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Posted by Coordinator on January 13, 2012 at 05:19:13

In Reply to: Re: 32 yr. old teacher has sex with 14 yr. old pupil aquitted..speechless posted by FH on January 13, 2012 at 05:13:32:

There are no such requirements, official or unwritten.

Having said that, it should be noted that to faciliate communications, people who wish to use our boards (or just about any forum or virtual community for that matter) on a regular basis, if they wish to have a vested identity or credibility, do need to establish their leanings to start with, which you have not done and seem rather reluctant to do. Or is it my imaginaton?

And having stated the above, it should be noted that although there are no such dictates particular to this site, this is not the world's most convenient communicaton medium. There are no identification labels or badges (such as "senior member" on some forums). Internet users have a culture of being impatient and fickle. People give up when there is no instant gratification. They turn away from pages that don't load, seldom look past the first top-ten search results shown in Google and so on. So, however long you have been posting here, it would be too much to expect everyone to do thorough research on all your previous posts and to know exactly who you are and where you stand. Our board users are not required to register. People use a variety of handles, just as you do. We do not have convenient links for displaying the complete history of whatever a particular person has posted. Add to that language ability and style, and the complexities are compounded and misunderstandings amplified.

And having expressed all of the above, I will now state for the record that I (I am not speaking for the other coordinators), do not have much patience for your going back and forth with vague censures and insinuations that there is some kind of hidden agenda. Such content constitutes the major part of your communications. Although I understand that it goes with the territory, I find it "infantile" when people constantly redirect their frustrations with TFI to exFamily.org. We spend time and money trying to provide a service that is open as we can afford. We state the rules clearly. If you feel our boards and services are not suitable for you, either make a concrete suggestion, or find some other site that works or doesn't work for you. You basically talk about talking, but never really say anything. Stop fishing, start discussing, or please stop wasting our time.



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