Posted by Loredana on September 19, 2012 at 15:20:21
In Reply to: Re: Question #3 posted by Extreme on September 19, 2012 at 08:18:23:
A very good point. I must agree with you that women are also predatory and driven to have sex and that it all depends on the individual person. Maybe my opinion that women are less so than men stems from the way I am and assuming that other women are the same or similar. I AM a sexual being and desire sex, but I wouldn't feel comfortable having sex with anyone but my husband whom I trust and with whom I can be myself. I just can't imagine the same degree of intimacy with anyone else or that feeling of love and safety.
Yes, women do cheat. It's quite possible they do it just as much as men. I wouldn't be surprised.
I have spoken to many women and I always feel like the odd one. Most women complain about their husbands and I just don't fit in somehow. Sometimes I wonder if it is different in other countries.
I remember an incident that happened over ten years ago. I went to a hairdresses and while I was waiting, she and a woman she was working on, were discussing their husbands. This was the first time I encountered this kind of a conversation outside TF and made the mistake of telling them the truth, when they wanted to know about me. They were specifically complaining about how their husbands don't satisfy them in bed, among other things. I told them I was perfectly happy.
One night, my husband came home from a gig he had just had and told me how after the concert she came to him (the hairdressing lady that is) offering him an apple and suggesting things. He politely declined. Afterwards he sang the song "Woman, Don't Advertise Your Man" to me, which was actually on his playlist at that time and we had a good laugh. My husband knew this woman's husband and quite liked him.
Who am I to judge?