In Reply to: Re: Let's talk about it (if you want, of course) posted by OldtimerToo on June 18, 2004 at 08:24:33:
I think somewhere in there you are trying to say something, is it that we men are all the same? The Bruce Willis story is funny but stil imaginary. You are assuming people are like you are and that sex can only happen as a result of premeditation, am I right???
Perhaps I am of a very weak character and I never premeditated but just lost conscience and suddenly everything was consumated. I guess that never happened to you so I am just pissing in the wind.
Also, I am not in a match with Lydia, nor with her views at all. I want to talk about this subject because it is something that bothers me. And I feel that she is honest and clear enough about her position to help me see things better and get peace. Why do YOU ask questions? Is it because you want to bother people?
If you feel like I am being pushy or something like that, that's fine, you opinion after all is yours, but that is not the case. If I direct these questions to Lydia is because I respect her point of view and I would like to understand the reasons behind the blank statements. In my example, there is a thick gray area and I have questions about it. The black and white is not the problem in this case.
If extramarital sex is wrong in all cases and under all circumstances, then that is an answer but I am trying to understand the love of a God who would allow something like that to happen (rape is a similar situation taken to an extreme) and then, are you guilty for having been raped?
Does that make sense to you?
You may not see the dilemma but you are assuming that my questions are in bad faith and that is pure stupidity on you part.
You may have your reasons to think that way, but I suggest you ask questions instead of jumping to a conclusion and tell people to cut the crap. Coming to think of that, maybe that's how you operate, is it?