i would agree..

Posted by ray on July 12, 2004 at 10:41:16

In Reply to: Where TF went wrong--just one place among many posted by Carol on July 12, 2004 at 09:21:13:

that ultimately each of us stands before God on our own, and ultimately we take responsibilty for our own decisions. the fam. totally squelched that principle.

but, isn't it a little illogical to judge this matter, and then turn around and say others must not judge? to me the issue is respecting others sovereignty of choice. for believers, seeking to understand and follow God's will is paramount.sharing ones insights w/ others to this end is love. teachers, prophets, writers, artists, parents, mentors, seek to convey their understanding of God's will thru their disciplines. you yourself do this when you posted this. the trick is, imo, to speak w/ conviction, and at the same time w/ respect for the perspectives, and sovereignty of others.