In Reply to: Re: Welcome posted by Alleygata on January 21, 2005 at 08:21:53:
I can certainly relate. My husband took on a second wife and it was absolutely awful and in spite of my absolute protests to boot. You can read it on this site under articles by exmembers - Mercy's story.
Yes, it is good to talk with exmembers, sometimes. Be prepared, because it will bring in those flood of memories that you buried. You must be prepared for that. You also need to understand that people who were once completely under a totalitarian rule even in their daily lives and whatever they spoke, once they are able to be free from that, it becomes akin to some kind of anarchy. You will find support, you will also find disagreements and some hot ones at that. Try not to take any of it personal. Look at me talking, I take it all personal. Anyway, I give good advice (he-he).
Sometime if you want to talk personal, let me know.