In Reply to: Getting her to tell the truth posted by Observer on June 25, 2005 at 16:15:30:
Yes. I absolutly hear what you say.
I really am not imagining the two of us having a life together. Really I'm not. You know I talked confidentially with my boss about this. Without mentioning names. She suggested I get some councelling. And I considered it. But I'm extreamly luck to have loving parents who have bought me up to be loving and sensible.
And honestly I'll be fine. But I really do believe in loving everybody. I've picked tramps up off the pavement before when everyone is blind to them.
I admit I love this woman. But I'm not going to risk my future for her. I know from what I've posted here it may sound like it. But really my main motivation in all this is the TRUTH. Not just for my sake.
Writting is yes a very bad idea. I really won't be doing that. But if I can at the very least say to her 'look you've been decieving me' it might at sometome make her think.
Personally I believe that God is Truth, as much as God is Love. I'm not a Christian , but I'm sure this is common ground. If I didn't suffer for Truth and Love .......