In Reply to: Re: lookig for a sister posted by Farmer on September 18, 2006 at 01:55:51:
Ish Selah, have you considered that you're maybe using the wrong criteria to measure this perfect soul mate and "spark of life"? You say, "I am having a hard time finding a wife or
companion or soul mate or spark of life,
all the woman i dated or married they are super
systemites." How many women have you married already and then broken up with? Divorce is a hard thing to go through once, I can't imagine going through it a few times.
I wonder if what you are mistaking for materialism and being a "super systemite" is those woman's natural nest-building instinct and the need for financial security and finances? Are you ready to settle down to a regular marriage? Nothing wrong with holding a steady 9 to 5 job and supporting a wife and family.
My wife could be considered "materialistic" in that she loves making the house neat, likes a huge TV and all the little knick-nacks and wants to own our own house some day, BUT she really loves the Lord and witnesses her faith and has a heart for the poor. So what are your criteria for judging that someone is a super-systemite?