Re: Question #3


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Posted by Loredana on September 21, 2012 at 19:37:01

In Reply to: Re: Question #3 posted by Peace on September 21, 2012 at 08:47:35:

Thanks for replying to my post.
The reason I have finally decided to post on this site is to be in contact with people who understand because they had gone through the same abuse. This in itself is helping to put some things to rest.

You went through the thick of it. We joined when FFing was over, at least we never had to do it. We didn't have to go through too many of those "radical" years before things started to mellow out. Our kids were never sexually abused, which must be one of the worst things that an ex member has to deal with. There is much we escaped and for that I am grateful.

My main question now has to do with the future, "What do I have to change to ensure I never experience abuse again?" I know I have to learn to be more assertive and not so accommodating towards people. This is not my nature, so it will be a long road, but TF experience is actually egging me on to work on it. First of all I need to see myself as a worthwhile person, who deserves respect.

I'd very much like to know more about your experience in TF, as well as before and after TF. What led you to join and how you have coped after leaving? But only if you want to write. I don't always feel like talking.





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