Posted by Extreme on September 28, 2012 at 19:23:58
In Reply to: Re: Question #4 posted by long time exer on September 27, 2012 at 01:12:17:
Thank you for taking the time to share all that! Essentially your abusive sex life in TFI was an extension of pre-TFI abuse. Did any of that make it impossible for you to have a normal sex life after TFI?
For me sex in TFI was more hurtful than outside TFI, messed with my head real bad. My sex life pre-TFI was going in the same direction as TFI (free love) but once in TFI all the natural controls that should be there were gone. It was so much easier to have sex but the sex was very unnatural and unloving contrary to the TFI twist on it. It was sex out of duty and slaving to some ideal and it was like going through motions. It felt borrowed. Only after leaving TFI I had the chance to experience wonderful sex that was pure physical, lustful and satisfying, or sex with deep emotional bonding. I get to live out the real version of this deep fulfilling love and sex TFI claimed to offer but didn't have.