Posted by [..] on December 18, 2017 at 14:38:48
In Reply to: Re: Sex with minors posted by Elizabeth on August 28, 2017 at 09:55:19:
Your loved one's family left at a good time. Sex with small children started in the house of Berg, was published around 1980 but many left, or if they stayed they would know the cult was sexualized, first with young women and men,that gradually but steadily got worse when what was practiced secretly at the top for awhile with young adults rolled down rank and file over time and became widespread. and then started with children which was also first practiced at the top and when that rolled down, more people left. But for those whose families stayed in it was worse as time went on.
I understand your fears. It is good that the parents left so early
If your relationship is new, work on building more trust so this is easier to talk about. And respect that if it isn't talked about and there is no problematic behavior (addiction or anxiety/depression) then his memories are from life after. I have kids who I left with around the same time and was on the outskirts a few years before leaving ( not getting lit). They are doing good in life though there were a few years of adjusting to life outside without extended family support. after leaving. Also, effects can vary according to how long the parents were in and where they were at.