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Friendship with outsiders

Posted by Miguel on July 24, 2002 at 10:29:39:

The Family will not do anything to help SGAs or FGAs, but that is why I was trying to point out in my question below. I was not talking about Barney or other exes. The idea presented of how all who befriends Family members might be pro-Family also works the other way around because outsiders are seen that way by the Family. Anybody who befriends people outside the Family are pro-systemites.

It is possible for an outsider to think that some one in the Family considers them friends. The realitity is that people in the Family do not have friends outside of the Family. Even relationships in the Family aren't that close in the sense we (systemites) understand friendship. Their MO is to use people and make them feel like friends but it's only a superficial thing. As soon as the use is completed or denied, the warmth turns into something different showing its true nature.