In Reply to: and so?..... posted by no name too on October 23, 2002 at 07:02:29:
Bitching is done by those who don't move on. If asking questions is not relevant to examine a point then what is the point? How come it is bitching when I point the obvious "default absolution" but when others lump all of us together is not?
By the way, I like your ideas below and they need some refining but how would you expect things like that to happen without a challenging dialogue? I doubt that congregating YES men and dictating as in the f'ing family will work here.
The best way to move on is to break with all the bitching you talk about, bitching about the family and how much we suffered, bitching about the pain and suffering and the abuse. Sadly bitching is part of the process of healing but it is also the way some communicate and it's hard for the spectators to know who is who. How do you discern between these?