I know what I, and most of my generation are looking for is an appoligy without " But the Devil( or in this case the family)made me do it" Just a simple I/we are very sorry what I/we did was wrong.
After all who was the family made up of? All of you.When you dont try to stop somthing ,you are pretty much giving permission it to happen,you see.
Theres a saying, "Silence means concent"
I'm going to post more about this tommrow but It's late.