This was such a good thot within Miguel's post below that it might be good as a header of a discussion. So, apologies to Miguel for editing out his first couple paragraphs, but here it is:
"I think there are some questions FG people nned to ask themselves, I know I have. Are we in a campaign to bring down the family? What are our goals in that regard? Do we want to get the Family to dismantle? Do we want to get the family to expose themselves so we can sue them? Do we want the family to be our friends or enemies? Do we care of what they do? Do we want to actively pursue them or just be a support group for people? Where do we fit, as a group, in this universe of ex members of the cult? Do we even want to fit anywhere?"