In Reply to: Re: Life-timers in the Family posted by Bystander on January 31, 2003 at 21:47:54:
Thanks for the words. I have met my biological mom, it's been a decade, she just doesn't bother, must not care. The ones who didn't see her for a quarter of a century were her siblings/parents. They talked to me of a very different girl from the person who abandoned me to the Lord and his paedophile shepherds when I was a 12-year-old "adult." They loved a person I never had the chance to meet. Love I think includes being there, knowing the thing you love. Otherwise you claim to love, try to believe you love, but it's a fantasy.