In Reply to: I thot I'd answered that one posted by another ex-brother on March 13, 2003 at 08:59:26:
Good points. I do believe that sometimes marriage is work - you have to work at it. It's a committment and I think that in today's society we have a problem with people being committed or working hard at something. That's why so many marriages end up on the rocks or people just give up. Of course, in abusive situations, nothing works but leaving it.