In Reply to: Re: let it out posted by Sam Ajemian on May 01, 2002 at 20:13:52:
Believe me I know reasoning with them is futile, they live in a different reality with different rules that they have made up, and they are never wrong because if they don't like something they just change the rules and it is their reality their world so they will always be "right" in their minds.
I think others would stand with me I just have to be sure this is the right time for my brother I don't want to push him away by fighting so hard that he sees me as an extremist and then feels that I am just out for my own agenda. That is all he has known in the family and it is not like that out here, or with me, it is not my agenda that I want to push I just want him to know that he is not alone and he will have support if he decides to leave and that there is such a thing as unconditional love. But I can't even talk to him alone without my mother, I don't even know if she will let me talk to him period. I don't know if I should do something extreme like just grab him put him in my truck and fight my mother off just so I can talk to him, I don't want to scare him off, but I am about ready to risk it just because the risk is so great for me right now, being that my other brother just died and he was the same age.