In Reply to: Re: screwed up childhood posted by juni on August 28, 2003 at 20:36:46:
I wonder if sex in the group was harder for people who are "feeling" oriented. To have sex with someone whom I didn't have any emotional connection to, that was about the worst thing I could do, worse than eating boiled liver or getting my shots. And on the other hand, to have sex with someone I was really interested in, but have that little nagging thought in my mind the entire time "How do they feel about me?" and knowing that even if they say "Ooooh I love you..." it could just as well mean "I love you with the love of God, but I don't really like you that much...", that hurt just as much.