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oooohh....

Posted by Acheick on September 08, 2004 at 23:15:16

In Reply to: Re: OK OK posted by another SG on September 08, 2004 at 23:07:24:

Yes, that would make sense. My children have the same problem. Fortunate for them, I am there for them and I can apologize, but he remains steadfast and firmly entrenched in TF. He continues to deal them low blows though, even now. It really infuriates me to see them hurt all over again. So, I understand how frustrating that must be for you. Sometimes it helps to write a long letter to the person or persons who have hurt and wronged you. Then tuck it away and keep it in a drawer somewhere - just in case. Maybe you can give it to him one day. I have a few letters tucked away like that. Believe it or not, it helps. I'm sorry you are in such pain, I want to do what I can to alleviate it - but it's not much. I'm not the greatest person around.