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Re: I'm ready to resign myself

Posted by Jane on November 13, 2004 at 20:24:44

In Reply to: I'm ready to resign myself posted by Roger on November 13, 2004 at 19:57:55:

Roger, In case you are unaware, I also am a coordinator of an exmember board and have been for several years. I do know how difficult it is to coordinate a board, having to make everyone stick to the guidelines and how difficult it is to make the decision to delete a message. But here is my problem, it does seem like Acheik is pin pointed and is simply deleted for no apparent reason. I feel for you because you appear to the fall guy and the one who should be out here fixing things is WC, but he is conveniently absent for work again.

I don't see how Acheick posting would be at the detriment of this board. Why? Are there any real big secrets that we don't already know as exmembers? I doubt it. We have suffered through enough secrets. Sometimes we have to step up to the plate and say "No More!" Sometimes you have to hash out the differences. Sometimes you have to let the people involved have their say. ( I realise that you don't have the final say-so on this but that it lays with WC).

As I know, Joseph has told you that I speak my own mind. He doesn't have to explain anything to me about running a board, being confidential, having integrity and so forth. I resent the implication that my husband has to explain these things to me. Maybe you didn't mean it that way but that's the way it came across. Please consider when you speak to Joseph that you are not speaking to me. He doesn't speak for me or vice versa. As a woman who spend time in the Family I resent being put into a second class citizen role. Screw that.

I'm sure that you are probably a decent guy. I wish you well in your endeavors on the boards. It's not an easy job and it's mostly thankless.