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How and where do I even begin?

Posted by wc on November 13, 2004 at 22:46:26

In Reply to: I'm not arguing anything posted by Acheick on November 13, 2004 at 15:24:41:

Jane: I'm actually on the road again, and this is the first chance I've had to read the boards.

Acheick: I have no ill will towards you. I am happy for all the work we've been able to get done together. We wouldn't have made it this far without your contributions.

Your post was full of misrepresentations, even regarding why I wrote what I did after Kathy shut the board down.

Yes, KATHY herself shut the board down. She announced so herself, publicly. And she left a damning message of her own... Announcing it abruptly after ignoring discussions I tried to initiate for a few days... While I was sincerely trying to find solutions.

You see, to answer just about any of your questions or what I perceive to be misrepresentations in your post(s), I would have to reveal information we have agreed to keep private. I have nothing "to hide." Maybe it is nothing to you to talk about 3rd persons and reveal private coordinator discussions, but I intend to honor what we signed and agreed to be for our coordinator forum, and I won't keep discussing 3rd persons just because you keep bringing them up. Specifically, just to answer your above post, I would have to discuss Kathy and/or her actions, things that happened on our coordinator forum, events that transpired that led up to that message being posted. She is a respected person in this community, and my discussing her would come across as my trying to affect some kind of negative opinion about her, and I have no wish to do that. I'm not interested. I only wish her the best. I have no wish to get drawn in to answering your posts to clear anything up. You have your say about how you see things, and your email in circulation is your perogative and your "closure." I agree that for the most part, your email was a positive message, etc. Even though I may not see things the same way, I haven't circulated emails in order to counter you. You are entitled to your opinion.

You are welcome to post and repost your email address and say you can send them your farewell message, so people who wish to hear from you can write requesting that info.

Now if you or any others wish to see my refusing to get drawn into this as being the bad guy, that's OK, then make me you bad guy. I just honestly don't wish to discuss coordinators who've left. Sorry.