In Reply to: Harder Stance posted by Jim LaMattery on April 22, 2005 at 21:52:20:
OK, I can believe that you have a 'hard stance' towards Clare Borowick & all the evil she represents. But I mean that, IMO, you should come across firmer & harder to her. The fact that you are ABLE to word things gently when you know who the enemy is -- is good. I guess I'd just like to have seen you choosing more of a gentle approach when dealing with SGs and other exmembers the past while.
Maybe you claim you are "an hard man, reaping where you have not strawed" but since you know how to present yourself gently even to the enemy, Borowick, you should extend that kind of approach to exmembers as well. Maybe you feel you have, but it's all a matter of perception. If YOU think you've been fair & not overbearing, but the people you're dealing with feel you HAVE been that way, it might be time to shift gears a bit.