Yes, I am

Two major trends in the recent psts are confusing about who is what and how to think about people in TF. If they are my relatives, or the relatives of my husband/wife, or I knew them as children, or ... ( you insert here your favorite reasons ) then I can feel sorry for them and treat them with some special treatment. I don't have to think they are bad people and that what they follow and promote is an evil doctrine.

But on the other hand, if they are children of other people, or blah blah blah, then it is fine to go after them because they are promoting some evil doctrines.