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Re: questions for male ex members

Posted by JoJo on November 09, 2005 at 10:39:19

In Reply to: Re: questions for male ex members posted by jsu on November 09, 2005 at 05:03:33:

You really are cute jsu. It's amusing at time how conclusions are come to here. It's no wonder so little gets done to stop the TFI.

I'm sure that there must have been times when sharing was heavily pushed on sisters who were not inclined to wanting to share with men. I personally had problems with jealousy when my wife used to share with brothers. But then again my first marriage was a wreck from the start anyway. Because of my problems with jealousy I would find it hard to get into the big sharing thing as I would be always concerned about my wife running off with others. Sounds funny now, but that's how I was.

As for sharing schedules, I didn't have a lot of experience with them. The home I was in that had them had a NAS who was pushing the sharing, and I guess if there was anyone who was not comfortable about sharing, it would have been hard to mention there.

Overall I think there were a lot of different personalities who thought differently and acted differently. There were brothers who were like predators I guess, and there were sisters who were fair game for anyone. It seemed that peoples backgrounds before joining had quite a bit of influence on how they reacted to the whole sexual thing.

That's my 2cents worth.

All the best