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Jim, STOP NOW, please

Posted by One who knows on May 22, 2006 at 06:56:34

In Reply to: Re: In Memory posted by Jim LaMattery on May 21, 2006 at 23:31:31:

You really know nothing about what his parents had been trying to do for him and how they were trying to be there for him, and what they had to cope with themselves. YOU DON'T HAVE MUCH OF AN IDEA AT ALL. To paraphrase you, YOU know nothing about the complexity of the situation they were in.

So please take it upon yourself to cease with your speculations, and do kindly apologize for your insulting comments, even if they were coated with "may not have known" and "I can't help but wonder".

Your anger (or whatever you choose to call it) is misdirected, your suspicions about lack of parental support way off track. AND like your previous behavior, you have a real problem understanding what is appropriate, and when, and how far to carry some idea in your head.

His parents are not going to come in here to set you straight at a time like this, nor should they have to at a time like this. Back off, please.

PLEASE save you musings about whether or not his parents understood the complexity of David's condition to yourself. Please do not speculate on their relationship.

It's great that you achieved this expose thing on the Hack estate. Perhaps that is your domain of expertise, you at your best. Please don't let it go to your head.

Your energy and tenacity to investigate and hound criminals of TF befits you. Human relations on the other hand, I am really doubtful about your skills with. Your over-developed sense of self-importance "I can't help but wonder" about either (to paraphrase you).