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Re: How about for once

Posted by Coordinator 2 on December 12, 2006 at 19:12:37

In Reply to: Re: How about for once posted by OT2 on December 12, 2006 at 13:27:12:

Thanks, but no thanks. We're trying to cut down on the drama -- the kind where you get the same feedback over and over from multiple sources on mulitple occasions, but still insist the only reason there is a problem is because there must be a conspiracy of unfairness and hatred against you; the repeat themes of how people who disagree with you have "pretenses" and no "sincerity" or "honesty"; and the resultant multiple posts generated arguing on the subject.

The happenings at NDN shouldn't be brought over here. We decide how to handle things based on how people behave here, not there.

OT2, sincerely, I feel bad for you that you are suffering from depression. Thanks for sharing that and how it is affecting you. I believe you are a good guy deep down, but have trouble accepting the way things work. Maybe it's a question of how you interact in the bulletin board medium. Maybe it's other factors. I know you think we are harsh. We are just trying to manage the peace. In the sum total of it, we are talking about "mere" bickering on bulletin board posts, but sometimes people invest too much emotionally in their posts, and they and get overly upset for "nothing." I wish you rest and recovery, and a peace of mind. Give yourself the time and space to heal, and I hope you find your way out of the horrible hole that depression can put you in.