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Re: Quote of the day by JAQ

Posted by LTO on September 22, 2007 at 23:20:56

In Reply to: Re: Quote of the day by JAQ posted by Heavy Critic on September 22, 2007 at 23:01:35:

Heavy critic,

In all honesty, it was simply a different choice of words. If I am sorry for something, in my marraige, family, work, whatever, I usually just say, "I am sorry. Please Forgive me." I have to use the phrase rather regularly. I did not realize that it is the language of "classic victimizers".

Where can I learn more about the "classic victimizer mentality" you refer to? I am not really sure what it refers to exactly. I'd appreciate learning about it though. if it seems to you I have it. I have a lot of problems. Usually it takes a while for me to realize it. So this could be another one. Something you can recommend me reading?