Re: ok. had some coffee...

Ray,
I apologise if I have mistaken you with someone else. Was your name Happy, wife's name Meek? Perhaps I am remembering your wife in the PI and the UK and am assuming you were there as well. It was all a long time ago.
Unfortunately there is often a mob mentality on all these boards, (movingon too at times) and I see it starting in earnest here and I don't want to feed that.
This conversation may be best continued privately and you are welcome to email me.
Jules