In Reply to: Re: double standards? posted by goth88 on January 16, 2003 at 22:03:22:
I think you bring up very valid points. I think Jules brings up very valid points. I don't expect everyone to agree all the time. I think the dialogue is good and we should be able to try and understand where the other person is coming from, even if we don't agree. We had one exmember posting for awhile who said she never saw any abuse go on in the F. and was very adament about her position. Well, we kind of poo-pooed that and basically shooed her away. Instead, we should have tried to understand why she felt that way and took some time with it. I'm one of the guilty ones in that scenario. We're all looking at things from different perspectives. That's how I see it - or trying to see it. Thanks for posting her, Goth, and speaking your mind.