In Reply to: What's love got to do with it? posted by Singleton on March 13, 2003 at 06:26:04:
I remarried an exmember - actually, we left TF together and I don't think I could have done it any other way. I think with so many years in the group, I would be useless to someone who would have a hard time to understand my past. They would have had to be extremely understanding and up to date on the whole cult existence. I think that would have been hard. As it stands, I have someone with me that I can bounce things off of and talk to and he knows just what I'm talking about and knows why I feel the way I do and react the way I do, I don't have to explain. As far as the Law of Love and reality, we both agreed that we had both been so hurt by watching our mates be with someone else that we would not do that to each other, it was just not an option.