In Reply to: Love's Bridge. posted by Sam A. on September 07, 2003 at 08:43:45:
sam, below you expressed to christina that you look forward to her input on how to resolve the matter. wouldn't it seem prudent to wait for her input before announcing your intentions like this? isn't this "answering a matter before you hear it"? why not show an idealistic young person living a sacrificial life for others the respect to at least allow them to explain the situation, and then , after weighing out the issues with a broader perspective, decide on a course of action?you state that it is a complicated situation. don't such situations warrant greater reflection?
showing respect for sg's seems in line with any positive goal.how can this hurt?