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Re: appropriate venues

Posted by on December 08, 2005 at 19:58:53

In Reply to: Re: appropriate venues posted by headbanger on December 08, 2005 at 16:25:32:

Headbanger-
The media was knocking down my door because Elixcia was staying at my house. The media didn't percieve me as a gatekeeper. Your "sense" may be limited to only a few who percieve me as a carpetbagger. I have never set myself up as a "go-to-guy" or a representative for all SGAs. I have, however, when requested by some SGAs, helped them. I did not exploit Elixcia, no matter how you "see it." I don't care if you "buy" my "story" about Elixcia. I do, however, care how Elixcia feels about you using her to get others to see your perspective, sense, and feelings. You were not at the signing of the contract. You have no idea of the intent of the parties who contracted together, and Elixcia has never stated publicly, or privately, for that matter, any consternation with the contract. I did recieve a letter from someone purporting to be her attorney who claimed the contract was vague, and therefore invalid. I didn't agree with this individual's assessment of the contract, but since, at the time, I had no way of contacting Elixcia herself on this matter, I chose to invalidate the contract and mail it to her "representative," assuming it came from her bona fide representative. Elixcia has been nothing but cordial and kind to me, and has never expressed any ill-will about the contract. So, maybe you should talk to her before you rely on your "senses" again.
I am not convinced that your "friends" buy into your interpretation of me and other matters. I would have to talk to them about that. Can your friends represent their own views? I didn't have a problem with Don Lattin not compensating Elixcia- I had a completely different problem with him.
If I want your input on how I can make "progress" I will ask for it. Asking people on this board to substantiate any claim that they make against me is not "droaning." Asking someone to be specific is not an attempt to grind them down. It is merely an attempt to understand what specific problems they may have with me. You say I'd be "better off not talking here at all,"- I have no problem expressing myself here, or on your home site, but I would be hard pressed to take your suggestions in the first place. What debacle are you talking about on Dr. Phil? I do not believe that finding a way, any avenue, to reconnect with my daughter is a debacle or a humiliation. It may be tough at times, but I believe its worth it. Or maybe you meant that the portrayal of TFI was a debacle?
Who is "us" in your statement "Do us a favor"? I've been working very hard on a project that will come out in public in January '06. If individuals like you discontinued posting erroneous posts like this one above, I could "go away." But don't expect that anytime soon. There have been plenty of sincere posts with genuine questions and concerns that I haven't minded one bit answering. I have a theory of where your pillow is at, but I can't substantiate it so I will not make a public post about it. I'm sorry you get irritated when I don't answer you immediately, but you are not the only one on this board asking questions or making statements.