now that's a loaded post


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Posted by long time exer on February 04, 2012 at 22:17:16

In Reply to: Re: Actually, PD... posted by CB on February 03, 2012 at 19:45:13:

almost seems a bit passive aggressive..It states that someone baited the Christians here and then stroked a "weak ego". Hmm. I think it was my ego that was stroked? And another person. Well, all I can say to that is- if something is bugging you about a posting situation- why not speak directly to the poster about how something struck you? And instead of saying "stroke a weak ego"- why not say to that person you perceive as being a weak ego- about how it bothered you. I am not Christian, but I have never put anyone down for believing in God, I just hate the way people can group together (talking i.e. Westboro Baptist Church) and put people down for any number of issues they disagree with. My question to you is, do you feel someone intentionally posted to stir things up here, setting people against each other? Or do you think someone posted and was actually dealing with some things that were very difficult for them? Or is it the unknown factor playing a role?
Maybe direct response or questions would help everyone to sort things out. One thing I learned after getting out of the family is that instead of going in sideways to make a point or express feelings, or find out how someone thinks, it is actually healthier to ask directly. I can't know what you were thinking when you posted the above (in entirety) but there is no mistaking that you felt baited and that a "weak ego" was stroked.


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